26 August 20262 min read

“A day without laughter is a day wasted.” — Charlie Chaplin

“A smile is the universal welcome.” — Max Eastman

“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.” — Phyllis Diller

“A hut full of laughter is richer than a palace full of sadness.” — Zen Proverb

“Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.” — Victor Borge


有一種東西,比我們的面貌更像我們,那便是我們的表情。還有另外一種東西,比表情更像我們,那便是我們的微笑:)


Always laugh out loud when you can. Laughter is cheap medicine.


“The less you talk about your shame, the more of it you have.” — Mark Manson

“The more you can laugh at yourself, the happier you’ll be. When you screw something up, practice laughing at yourself instead of beating yourself up.” — Arnold Schwarzenegger 1

(小野著. and 小野, 1951- author 2012)

人生歷經不同的痛苦煎熬後,我終於了解,學習如何化解痛苦,還不如練習用一種自我解嘲的幽默方式,慢慢將痛苦吞食,或許在某一瞬間,還會有甘甜的滋味在喉間。

Vulnerability


Optimism


  • Set the face for the day — smile at yourself in the mirror first thing in the morning.
  • Laugh out loud, not just inwardly — pretend-laughing for ten seconds usually becomes real laughing. The body doesn’t fully know the difference.
  • Ask “what’s the joke here?” — when something goes wrong, hunt for the absurd angle. There is almost always one.
  • Keep levity in your media diet — consume genuinely funny things (e.g. memes) on purpose, like a nutrient. 2
  • Laugh with people, not at them — shared laughter builds bonds; laughter at someone’s expense breaks them.

  1. 自貶、自嘲、自我揭短

  2. Don’t underestimate the power of memes (aka Pebbling). It signals that you’re thinking of them and want them to share your joy. It’s an act of care. Every pebble is a bid for (social) connection.

❝ CITATIONS

小野著., and 小野, 1951- author. 2012. 有些事, 這些年我才懂: 小野的人生思考. Chu ban. 臺北市: 究竟出版社.
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