Real people are more often lively, passionate, opinionated, and provocative, and they express more disagreements.

I see roughly three typical public stances: boring, lively, or outraged. Either you act boring, so the bandits will ignore you, you act lively, and invite bandit attacks, or you act outraged, and play a bandit yourself.

It takes unusual art, allies, and energy, in a word “eliteness”, to survive while choosing lively.